Same-Sex Wedding Officiant in the San Gabriel Valley
Personalized, affirming same-sex ceremonies across Southern California since 2007
Same-Sex Ceremonies Since Day One
Gabriel Hernandez has been performing same-sex wedding ceremonies since before California legalized marriage equality in 2013 — not because he had to, but because he believed in it. Every same-sex couple receives the exact same personalized experience, care, and professionalism as every other couple he serves.
No Heteronormative Scripts
Gabriel never defaults to "bride and groom" language. Together you'll choose the pronouns, titles, and ceremony language that feel authentic to your relationship — whether that's "partners," "spouses," "brides," "grooms," or simply your names. Your ceremony is written for you, not adapted from someone else's.
Bilingual Same-Sex Ceremonies
For same-sex couples from Hispanic and Latino backgrounds, Gabriel offers a rare combination — fully bilingual English and Spanish ceremonies that honor both your identity and your culture. Traditional Latino ceremony elements are welcome alongside modern, personalized vows.
Same-Sex Wedding Ceremony Packages
All packages are available for same-sex weddings, elopements, and commitment ceremonies anywhere in the San Gabriel Valley and Southern California.
Simply The Ceremony
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(No wedding license needed)
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Customized wedding vows Attend all meetings via in person/ phone / email Assistance with obtaining wedding application Romantic, custom wedding ceremony performed by a professional wedding officiant at the location of your choice
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*Nonrefundable deposit ($200) to secure date/time of ceremony.
The Royal Wedding
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Customized wedding vows
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Attend all meetings via in person/ phone / email Assistance with obtaining wedding application Romantic, custom wedding ceremony performed by a professional wedding officiant at the location of your choice Work with witnesses on the big day for signatures Delivering the signed wedding certificate on your behalf
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*Nonrefundable deposit ($250) to secure date/time of ceremony.
Anniversaries / Vow Renewals
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Customized ceremony
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Attend all meetings in person / via phone/email Romantic, custom wedding ceremony performed by a professional wedding officiant at the location of your choice
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*Nonrefundable deposit ($150) to secure date/time of ceremony.
What Couples Are Saying
Same-Sex Ceremonies Across the San Gabriel Valley
From intimate backyard elopements to elegant venue receptions, Gabriel performs same-sex ceremonies at locations throughout the San Gabriel Valley and Inland Empire. Every venue, every setting, every couple is welcome.
San Dimas
San Dimas Canyon Golf Course, Via Verde Country Club, and private estates — Gabriel's home base and most familiar territory.
Glendora
Glendora Country Club and intimate outdoor settings nestled in the scenic San Gabriel foothills.
Covina & West Covina
Hurst Ranch, Covina Woman's Club, South Hills Country Club, and private residences throughout the Covina corridor.
Azusa
Lindley Scott House, Azusa Greens Country Club, and Sycamore Park — beautiful settings for intimate same-sex ceremonies.
Rancho Cucamonga
Christmas House Inn & Gardens, Red Hill Country Club, and The Miller Gardens — stunning Inland Empire venues.
Your Venue
Gabriel travels to any location — your home, backyard, park, or venue of choice anywhere in Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, or San Bernardino County.
Travel is included within 50 miles of San Dimas. A small travel fee may apply for destinations further away.
Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions from same-sex couples planning their ceremony in the San Gabriel Valley
Do you perform same-sex weddings?
Yes — and it’s one of the most meaningful parts of this work. Gabriel has been performing same-sex ceremonies since before marriage equality was legally recognized in California. Every same-sex couple receives a fully personalized ceremony with the same dedication and professionalism as any other wedding he performs.
Are you legally authorized to perform same-sex marriages in California?
Yes. Gabriel is a registered non-denominational minister, fully authorized to perform legal same-sex marriages in California. He handles all legal paperwork including signing and filing your marriage certificate after the ceremony.
How do you handle pronouns and ceremony language?
Intentionally and carefully. Gabriel works with you in advance to choose every word — titles, pronouns, and ceremony language that reflect your identities and relationship. Nothing is assumed, and nothing gets said on your wedding day that you haven’t reviewed and approved.
Are you familiar with LGBTQ+ family dynamics?
Yes. Gabriel understands that same-sex couples often navigate unique family situations — from varying levels of family acceptance to chosen family playing central roles in the ceremony. He creates a welcoming, respectful environment for everyone in the room and can help you thoughtfully incorporate all the people who matter most.
Can we have a bilingual same-sex ceremony?
Absolutely. Gabriel performs fully bilingual ceremonies in English and Spanish. Whether you want a fully bilingual ceremony, bilingual vows, or specific readings in Spanish, he’ll accommodate your wishes completely — including traditional Latino ceremony elements if desired.
Can we write our own vows?
Yes. Gabriel provides vow-writing guidance throughout the planning process. Whether you want fully custom vows, adapted traditional vows, or a combination of both, he’ll help you find the right words. He can provide prompts, examples, and structure to get you started.
Do you perform same-sex elopements and commitment ceremonies?
Yes. Whether you’re eloping with just two witnesses or celebrating a commitment ceremony without a marriage license, Gabriel offers fully personalized ceremonies for every situation. Elopement packages start at $400.
What areas do you serve?
Gabriel is based in San Dimas and serves all of Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, and San Bernardino counties. Travel is included for ceremonies within 50 miles of San Dimas. A small travel fee may apply for locations further away.
How much does a same-sex wedding officiant cost?
Packages range from $300 to $500. Vow Renewals start at $300, Simply The Ceremony is $400, and The Royal Wedding is $500 — which includes unlimited consultations, customized vows, marriage license assistance, witness coordination, and certificate filing. No hidden fees.
How do we get started?
Call or text (626) 675-9904 or fill out the contact form to book your free consultation. No pressure, no obligation — just a conversation about your wedding day and how Gabriel can make it exactly what you’ve envisioned.
Let's Plan Your Same-Sex Ceremony
Book your free consultation today. Gabriel serves same-sex couples across San Dimas, Glendora, Covina, Azusa, Rancho Cucamonga, and all of Southern California. Every couple. Every ceremony. Every love story — told your way.